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symbol christmas vrkmphoto internet wallpaper hot fire backgroundDad woke up from a nap in his lazy chair and felt something heavy put on his lap. When he opened his eyes, he saw images of people on a screen happily waving their hands and shouting “Merry Christmas”. Dad asked in confused wonder, “who are these people?”

“They’re your grandchildren.”

Skyping was the closest way to having the children in the house. I pointed the camera to the chard tart, Moroccan chicken and sweet potato pie on the table. It was the closest way for the children to having the feast with me.

We made do, thanks to technology.

Merry Christmas to all.

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Gift of the Magi

James Tissot - The Magi Journeying (Les rois mages en voyage) - Brooklyn Museum

Night is a time of ownership.  People are sleeping, and obligations are temporary suspended.  It was good not to feel needed for a few hours, especially after the big Christmas cooking and cleaning.  There was a need to give myself a present. Reading O. Henry’s Gift of the Magi came to mind.  Long ago my children received a thick volume called The Book of Virtues, edited by William J Bennett.  O. Henry’s story was in this book.

The characters:  Della and Jim.  The gifts:  a fob chain and a pair of hair combs.  The sacrifices:  her hair, his watch.  The irony:  neither of them can use the gift.

I looked around my room:  my children’s paintings when they were in preschool, a note from my daughter after her hat nearly fell off while dancing on stage, a plaster dinosaur, a red silk cocoon…I had never considered these things wise, but they had come from the Magi, who bore the gifts of love.

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The Present of Christmas Past

God is the portable heater where Cookie, Klimey and Petey find peace and love.  They stick their wet noses right up to the mesh screens and toast their whiskers; and sleep, one on each side (with the third snuggled tentatively behind).  The son of God is the food bowl and water, which are now placed in close proximity.  Double bliss, my children, double bliss.

There was always music on Christmas Eve when I was growing up.  At church they turned the lights off in the sanctuary just before the processional, and the choir marched in with lighted candles.  At home, father put the lights on the Christmas tree as we drooled over the wrapped presents underneath.  We were not allowed to open any gifts until the 26th, which he called “Boxing Day”.  I learned when I was quite young that the wrappings had a mystique about them that the actual presents did not.  It was a shoe horn, hung on the branch of the tree for over a week dressed in purple paper and a red bow.  After I unwrapped it I put what I had desired so fervently into a drawer and that was that.

“Is the grocery shop open?”  How come the urge to shop is the greatest when everything is closed?  How come I have to think twice before I say “Merry Christmas”?

Because someone like Dore will say “Humbug!”.

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The Living Tree

When I was small my father always insisted on buying a real tree for Christmas.  Father, who worked with wood every day, wanted only authentic things.  As his piano business prospered, each year the tree grew bigger, until one year it nearly touched the living room ceiling.  These trees were tossed out after the holidays, but at that time we didn’t think too much about this sort of thing.

In his old age Father still puts on Christmas lights around his kitchen window.  His trees have been small potted gifts from friends.  When a tree gets too big he instructs the gardener to plant it in his backyard.  One has grown into a beautiful blue spruce.

Last night my daughter Julia sent a photo of her Christmas tree—a baby rosemary bush.  She’ll continue to have fresh herb after the holidays.  The tradition goes on, but with a much more considerate attitude.

Photo by Julia Hsu.

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Suddenly There Is Energy

“What’s Black Friday?”  My father asked.

“I guess it has something to do with tenting in parking lots for bargains.”  I replied.

Suddenly there is a burst of energy.  Everyone is moving in a purposeful way.  The bells are jingling on street corners and Christmas music can be heard from downtown to Chinatown.  The gift-giving season has kick-started.

My piano student walks into her lesson bleary-eyed.  She stood in line at some shop five in the morning.  I don’t bother to ask if she has practiced.

Bargain means buying things that you don’t really need but feel good spending the money.  Oh, but I’m being cynical!  It’s the American culture (since when has it become a culture?), and if you have fun being part of the mob then why not?

Photo credit:  The Inquisitr

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