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A Dreaded Activity

Paying bills maybe the number one dreaded activity.  The second is house cleaning.  Although many lost things are found this way, the pleasure of having a cleaned space is short-lived.

Growing up in Hong Kong our maid cleaned the house every day.  Dusting, mopping, wiping, washing clothes by hands, waxing the floor (that’s about once a month), etc.  These activities required a healthy and strong body—or that her body was made strong and healthy because of the activities.

Writing does not make a body strong.  When it is required to bend and scrub and lift and put away I feel the strain.  And with all the modern appliances they have not made cleaning more enjoyable.  The only pleasure—and this be the only one— is knowing that I’ve done my best to keep visiting friends from having an allergy attack.

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Simple Things

Dore with village bread.

There was a time when I could eat and drink anything:  roast duck, steak, salted fish, coffee, mocha, sugar sugar and whipped cream a la carte.  Those days are gone when little health issues begin to creep up here and there.  Changing the way I eat requires discipline and intention, which I have neither, until disaster strikes.

And then a new world opens up.  A world of simple pleasures, like a well toasted piece of whole wheat bread or a colorful salad of arugula and ripe tomatoes.  Salt is added just enough to bring out a burst of flavors in food.  Farmers market is my best friend.  I marvel at the arrays of junk food on the shelves in the super markets, how we have stuffed ourselves, and the stuff that we have become because of them.

The body wants to be listened to.  Most of us who did wild and crazy things in our youth have mellowed out.  The time for reflection is autumn, before the cold, grey winter.

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